in ‧ con ‧ gru ‧ i ‧ ty /ˌɪnkənˈɡruːəti, ˌɪnkənˈɡruːɪti/ BrE AmE noun ( plural incongruities )
[uncountable and countable] the fact that something is strange, unusual, or unsuitable in a particular situation:
The incongruity of her situation struck Gina with unpleasant force.
incongruity between
He didn’t see the slightest incongruity between the idealism of his plays and his own morals.