[ca.jole] vt ca.joled ; ca.jol.ing [F cajoler] (1645) 1: to persuade with flattery or gentle urging esp. in the face of reluctance: coax "had to ~ them into going"
2: to deceive with soothing words or false promises -- ca.jole.ment n -- ca.jol.er n -- ca.jol.ery n