fem ‧ i ‧ nin ‧ i ‧ ty /ˌfeməˈnɪnəti, ˌfemɪˈnɪnəti/ BrE AmE noun [uncountable]
qualities that are considered to be typical of women, especially qualities that are gentle, delicate, and pretty ⇨ masculinity :
You don’t have to lose your femininity to be an independent, successful woman.