/ ˈruːfl; NAmE / adjective
feeling or showing that you are sad or sorry :
a rueful smile
► rue·ful·ly / ˈruːfəli; NAmE / adverb :
'So this is goodbye,' she said ruefully.
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WORD ORIGIN
Middle English (also in the sense pitiable ): from the noun rue regret + -ful .