də̇ˈskrēt, usu -ēd.+V adjective
( sometimes -er/-est )
Etymology: Middle English discreet, discret, from Middle French discret, from Medieval Latin discretus, from Latin, past participle of discernere to separate, distinguish between — more at discern
1. : possessed of or displaying discernment or good judgment in conduct and especially in speech : prudent , circumspect , tactful ; especially : capable of preserving prudent silence (as with respect to confidences or delicate matters)
his trusted discreet aide
2.
a. : marked by, reflecting, or suggesting prudence, circumspection, or reticence : cautious , unobtrusive
a discreet silence
discreet inquires
followed her at a discreet distance
b. : not showy : unpretentious , modest
the warmth and discreet elegance of a civilized home — Joseph Wechsberg
: restrained , muted
her playing yesterday was extremely discreet in the sense of sonority and tonal impact — Olin Downes
: not offensively vivid or strong
perfumes became more “massive” and less discreet — T.F.Brady
3. Scotland : observant of decencies : civil , polite
• dis·creet·ness noun -es