adjective
causing more problems and difficulties instead of solving them; not achieving what you wanted to achieve but having an opposite effect :
Paying children too much attention when they misbehave can be self-defeating.
adjective
causing more problems and difficulties instead of solving them; not achieving what you wanted to achieve but having an opposite effect :
Paying children too much attention when they misbehave can be self-defeating.
Oxford Advanced Learner's English Dictionary. Оксфордский английский словарь для изучающик язык на продвинутом уровне. 2005